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10月16日

人生的決擇 - 如何面對??

遺忘了的一個避難所,

不是忘記了,

亦不是因為懶.

當每次寫blog, 十居其九都是灰色事物

那麼不寫..是不是比寫更好?

正因為我的性格是屬悲觀..

更需努力平衡性格上的遺憾

不應加重自己內心的負擔

Choice –選擇

這是遍很值得思考的文章, 我很喜歡, 但不太多人明白固中的道理..字面上, 很容易理解, 人生上, 有多少人能作出正確的決擇??

有一群小朋友在外面玩

而那個地方有兩條鐵軌，
一條還在使用，
一條已經停用

只有一個小朋友選擇在停用的鐵軌上玩

其他的小朋友全都在仍在使用的鐵軌上玩

很不巧的，火車來了
（而且理所當然的往上面有很多小孩的，
仍在使用的鐵軌上行駛）

而你正站在鐵軌的切換器旁，
因此你能讓火車轉往停用的鐵軌
這樣的話你就可以救了大多數的小朋友

但是那名在停用鐵軌上的小朋友將被犧牲

你會怎麼辦？

據說大多數人會選擇救多一些的人

換句話說，
犧牲那名在停用鐵軌上玩的小孩....

但是這又引出另一個問題

那一名選擇停用鐵軌的小孩顯然是做出正確決定

脫離了他的朋友而選擇了安全的地方

而他的朋友們則是無知的選擇在不該玩耍的地方玩

為什麼做出正確抉擇的人
要為了大多數人的無知而犧牲呢？

這篇文章蠻發人深省的,
看完了感觸很深!

我們常被教育要顧全大局,但公平嗎?

似乎當大家都做的理所當然的時候,
我們就必須隨波逐流,
否則就會被放逐而不容於世,
如漁父中那位老翁勸屈原所說的:

世人皆濁,何不?其泥而揚其波?
眾人皆醉,何不?其糟而?其??

何故深思高舉,自令放為?

當一個人太堅持自己是"對"的,
最後的下場可能就是被犧牲的可憐鬼!

又有誰會為他掬一把同情之淚?
只會嘲笑他的愚蠢!

我們已經入了社會,
學習的就是圓滑的做人,

當你是主管,
就像文章中那位切換軌道的人,

內心的正義與現實衝突時,
你會如何抉擇呢?

不過～如果是我的話，
我並不會選擇切換軌道

因為，
我認為那群小朋友一定知道那是活的軌道

所以，
當他們聽到火車的聲音時，
就會知道要跑

但若，
將軌道切換後那個乖小孩必定慘死，

因為，他從來沒想過火車還會開到廢軌道上

所以，你認為呢？

或許我這樣的想法與理念，
到了我老時才會發現
我是個不斷被犧牲的可憐鬼，
但這個社會又為什麼要把是與非顛倒來又顛倒去呢？

另外，你們在想想，
一條鐵道會被停止使用，
是否代表著這個鐵道有著潛藏的危機呢？

如果切過去之後，
被犧牲的就不只是一個或一群小孩了，
而是整車的乘客呢？
大家想想吧！

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5月17日

Bye Bye glasses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why said bye bye to my glasses...which I've worn for 14 years?

Not because it has broken, nor was it because i lost it..

it's really because i don't NEED it! hurray :)

had an intralase lasik op., went well, didn't feel pain just a bit uncomfortable that's all..i can tolerate it when i'm thinking how much joy i will hv afterwards of not needing to wear glasses!!

trip -> no contact lens, cases, sterile waters, glasses (for flights, esp long flights), glasses case etc.

swimming, beach / water activities -> can enjoy more water sports now..no need to pretend i can see clearly along the shore or pool side..

summer -> no need to wear glasses when my face's sweating like hell...

night time -> no need to remove , wash, my lens before i sleep....

day time -> can sleep extra 5 min for not needing to put my contact lens on..

thanks to my dearest doc who gave me discount :P and confidence..

- day after op -

so..i regain my eyesight (almost perfect..recovered 80%-90%) the next day when i woke up..

took annual leave

so...with eyes needing intensive care...what can i do?

reading books?

work?

magz?

here's what i've done (would be a perfect day schedule to be followed everyday)

9am - doctor's clinic for eye appointment

10:30am - breakfast

11:15 - H & M

12:30 - lunch

13:00 - Free time..= laid on sofa time, afterall i'm full...n zZZ

14:00 - piano, dug out my fav pieces and re-play them again, although my fingers are starting to get out of control, i still managed to play them..my Chopin and Schubert

15:30 - starting to get extremely bored...stood at a window looking at the limited but yet very vivid scenary (probably because i felt the world is much prettier after the op), mild winds are blowing, it's such a perfect day i thought

15:45 - i started to paint my nails (last time i paint them was last D-code, i was too stressed out so i find sthg to distract me from stress)

16:00 - went out with mommy -> EMAE love the clothes, just like their style..tho the patterns and style just look the same every season, the clothes are just like Din's closet..haha

17:00 - went to a cheap cheap salon to get my hair washed..as my eyes are Anit-water for at least a week..i seriously regret having my hair tortured in that salon...the girl with chocolate colour face but blonde curly hair with white lip came to me and start blowdrying my hair, my first instinct is that .....O...My....God...Pls don't blowdry my hair like urs... Here's our very short conversation:

Girl: Would you prefer I straightened your hair or curl it up?

Din: umm...definitely Not straighten it..because my hair was permed...

Girl: Then i curl it up then..

Din: umm...no....just blowdry it...no need to do any special effect to it...thanks.

Girl: Ok..i'll try my best

Din: (thinking) is it that hard to just blowdry it and you still hv to try your best to do it?

The girl used a brush (with lots of hairs stuck on it, i'm sure they belong to the previous victims) to curl my hair round the brush, then using her force to pull it out as she blowdried with the hair dryer..

as i didn't ask her to put any gel on my hair before drying it...and my hair was very dried out after the perm some time ago...the split ends etc...my hair got stuck very deeply on the brush...

she pulled it with real force this time...and my hair all got chipped off at the middle i bet.....i saw hair falling down on the floor......

OOOOUCCH! that really hurts....

i never had such bad service...i swear i won't go there again...

my hair still keeps falling off when i walked on the street..

can i schedule my day to be like this (except for the hair part) for the next couple of months :)?

probably yes....in my dream.

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4月21日

篤timesheet

話說某大行需要員工篤timesheet, 我媽媽有見及此, 要求我都每日submit 一張timesheet比佢..

目的係....每日要最少篤8個鐘屋企......呢一個問題.....errr....

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4月2日

寫了一篇英文, 亦寫一篇中文

最近聽了3 個女歌手/女組合o既新碟..

泳兒 / twins / stephy

twins o的歌冇特別, 好似求求其其出隻cd 賺o下o的靚妹$...聽完完全唔記得o的melody...

stephy...得電燈膽好聽...不過k 歌...唔係o的好special o既小品 :(

泳兒...第一次聽佢全隻碟...ok wor, 有兩隻好聽, at least 係好特別, 佢o既唱功好, 唱得出o個隻歌o既味道

-> recommendations: 傾斜樂園 (o既有indian o既味道, 好難唱得到), 愛情鳥 (愛情小品, 幾高音o下~ 不過佢handle 到, 好聽, 唔會覺得佢reach 得好辛苦)

而家覺得國語歌好聽好多....好多唔出名o既都唱得好好聽呀....

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How to live longer?

Watched the last 15 min of a documentary on "How to live longer?"

Tips from the experts who studied the most long-lived organism on earth - Spongy coral (forgot the exact name, but it has been around the earth since ice-age):

1. Not to stress yourself too much

2. Stay positive

3. Maintain your social integration

4. Consume more anti-oxidants which includes chocolates and red wine, producing happy hormones and enzymes

5. Keep your brain active like monkeys

6. Stay patient like elephants

7. Slow down like turtles (which takes about 22 minutes to run a 100m race)

So, in conclusion, I'm pretty much certained that my path to death has been shortened in many ways (at least, i'm sure that i'm depreciating at an astonishing rate atm.)

Well, what about lay back and sit on the couch and do nothing?

As per the expert who speaks native UK accent, those who chose this style of life will die sooner because they are not using their brain and muscles so they deteriorate at a quicker speed.

Thus, my conclusion would be..either way of life, the length would still be the same, what would be your choice?

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3月24日